Untangling the messy truth about desire, love, and long-term intimacy “I feel broken,” she said quietly, eyes down. “Why?” I asked....

Exploring the Core Desire of Dominance, Devotion, and Transgressive Trust Our erotic blueprints are as unique as fingerprints. Your Core...

Exploring the Core Desire of Bold Expression, Spontaneity, and Electric Connection Every erotic being is wired a little differently. Your...

Exploring the Core Desire of Love, Devotion, and Deep Emotional Intimacy Have you ever wondered why  certain moments turn you on more...

(And Whether Coming Out is Right For You) This week’s question was submitted through Instagram: “How do you deal with the potential...

I recently launched my "Ask the Sex Coach"  series on Instagram, where I answer your real, unfiltered questions about intimacy,...

Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...

Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...

When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...

David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...

Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...

Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...

As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...

Let’s be real: conflict is part of every relationship. I don’t care how “aligned” or “conscious” your partnership is—if you're human, you’re going to hit bumps. The key isn’t avoiding conflict, it’s learning how to repair when it happens. And that’s a skill most of us were never taught.

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In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...

Casual relationships can be fun, freeing, and deeply satisfying — if you handle them with care. The truth is, not everyone wants something serious all the time. But when you’re dating casually, awareness and respect go a long way. The goal isn’t to “manage” someone’s feelings — it’s to move through connection with integrity, honesty, and kindness. Understand Her Perspective A lot of women carry mixed feelings about casual sex, and it’s not because they’re confused — it’s beca

Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...

My favorite part of our lovemaking is falling asleep with you our legs entwined my face nestled against your shoulder breathing your...

Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...