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The Cost of Being Looked At
A reflection on beauty, power, and the fear of fading Photographer: Rain Kessler Photography Beauty is a Currency—Whether We Want It to...
Cat Ferris
5 days ago5 min read
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Finding My Rhythm: What Ecstatic Dance Taught Me About Freedom
For years, I’ve incorporated ecstatic dance into my sacred sexuality practice. Movement has always felt like a gateway to something...
Cat Ferris
Mar 253 min read
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Why Empathy Is Harder in Relationships (And How to Cultivate It Anyway)
Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...
Cat Ferris
Mar 24 min read
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What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...
Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
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Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...
Cat Ferris
Oct 30, 20242 min read
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The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...
Cat Ferris
Oct 13, 20243 min read
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The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...
Cat Ferris
Oct 1, 20244 min read
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Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...
Cat Ferris
Sep 6, 20244 min read
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The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
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The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 30, 20242 min read
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The Power of Embodiment
In our fast-paced, hyper-connected world, it’s easy to lose touch with the connections that truly matter: the connections to ourselves,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 23, 20243 min read
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The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...
Cat Ferris
Jun 16, 20243 min read
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The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
Cat Ferris
Jun 4, 20241 min read
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Exploring Darker Desires
Content Warning: this essay mentions sensitive topics including incest, age play, and rape. "The erotic mind is not rational, nor is it...
Cat Ferris
Jun 2, 20243 min read
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Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
Cat Ferris
Jan 4, 20242 min read
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The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
Cat Ferris
Dec 8, 20232 min read
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Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
Cat Ferris
Dec 5, 20233 min read
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The Art of Love: Embracing Presence Over Perfection
In a world that often prioritizes physical attributes and societal expectations, the essence of a great lover transcends the superficial....
Cat Ferris
Nov 13, 20232 min read
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The Sublime Pleasures of Hot Wax
Festivals are incredible spaces where people from diverse backgrounds gather to celebrate their passions, hobbies, and interests....
Cat Ferris
Oct 10, 20232 min read
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