What if your most disturbing fantasy isn’t perversion—but grief? A trauma-informed look at erotic symbolism, agency, and healing.

I cried over a Japanese macaque with a stuffed animal—and it revealed a powerful truth about attachment, empathy, and our mammalian need for safety.

A reflection on fear, safety, and trust in today’s political climate—and why desire, connection, and embodiment are never apolitical.

The sex recession is real — but it’s not about libido. It’s about lost anticipation, instant chemistry myths, and how dating apps have disrupted the slow burn of desire.

New Relationship Energy (NRE) feels intoxicating—but it fades. Learn the science of NRE, why desire changes, and how core desires sustain long-term intimacy.

When dating feels like a marketplace, it’s easy to forget your humanity. An invitation to shift from performance to presence in modern dating.

A somatic, consent-centered guide to flirting at the gym—how to build safety, signal mutual interest, and avoid crossing boundaries. Respectful, slow, and attuned.

A kiss on the neck can be more than foreplay — it can be a direct line to the brain. Explore how the vagus nerve opens new pathways to pleasure, healing, and full-body connection.

Love and capacity aren’t the same. What happens when our emotional needs aren’t met? Let's explore the five choices we have in those moments, and how to navigate disappointment with compassion and self-awareness.

It’s time to stop making nudity weird. Discover how seeing real bodies—yours and your friends’—can heal body image and foster authentic self-acceptance.

At the Sex Down South conference, I experienced a modern reimagining of nyotaimori — the Japanese art of serving food from the human body. This reflection explores food play, embodiment, consent, and the transformation of pleasure into ritual. Discover how reverence and intention can turn sensuality into healing art.

I make love like an octopus. (Emotionally, metaphorically… not literally. Probably.)

Food play, filth, and the fine art of sticky surrender.

How conflicting roles can block our erotic expression—and what to do about it I went to Club Kink Jacksonville this past weekend. I was...

You want to feel connected not only to your partner, but to something greater. Call it Source, the Divine, the Universe, Spirit, Love itself. Eroticism, for you, is a path to wholeness. To unity. To becoming part of the All.

I’ve come to see my sacred sensuality sessions as a kind of improvised art—one that exists only for a moment, but leaves a lasting imprint. This is a glimpse into the ritual, the rhythm, and the remembering.

Photography Credit: JC Stark Photo So much of my work—and my personal mission—is rooted in body positivity. Every day, I’m in the...

A reflection on beauty, power, and the fear of fading Photographer: Rain Kessler Photography Beauty is a Currency—Whether We Want It to...

For years, I’ve incorporated ecstatic dance into my sacred sexuality practice. Movement has always felt like a gateway to something...

Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...