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Beyond the Genitals: Neck, Nerves, and the Hidden Pathways of Pleasure
A kiss on the neck can be more than foreplay — it can be a direct line to the brain. Explore how the vagus nerve opens new pathways to pleasure, healing, and full-body connection.

Cat Ferris
Nov 114 min read
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Love Isn’t the Same as Capacity
Love and capacity aren’t the same. What happens when our emotional needs aren’t met? Let's explore the five choices we have in those moments, and how to navigate disappointment with compassion and self-awareness.

Cat Ferris
Nov 24 min read
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Why We Should All See Our Friends Naked
It’s time to stop making nudity weird. Discover how seeing real bodies—yours and your friends’—can heal body image and foster authentic self-acceptance.

Cat Ferris
Nov 13 min read
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Embodied Art: Reflections on a Night of Food, Reverence, and Connection
At the Sex Down South conference, I experienced a modern reimagining of nyotaimori — the Japanese art of serving food from the human body. This reflection explores food play, embodiment, consent, and the transformation of pleasure into ritual. Discover how reverence and intention can turn sensuality into healing art.

Cat Ferris
Oct 232 min read
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I Have Always Been a Wild Creature
I make love like an octopus.
(Emotionally, metaphorically… not literally. Probably.)

Cat Ferris
Jul 172 min read
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Chocolate Sauce & Chaos: My Erotic Ice Cream Fantasy
Food play, filth, and the fine art of sticky surrender.

Cat Ferris
Jul 123 min read
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Fantasy, Interrupted
How conflicting roles can block our erotic expression—and what to do about it I went to Club Kink Jacksonville this past weekend. I was...

Cat Ferris
Jun 243 min read
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Spiritual & Energetic Eroticism: Sacred Union Through Breath, Body & Presence
You want to feel connected not only to your partner, but to something greater. Call it Source, the Divine, the Universe, Spirit, Love itself.
Eroticism, for you, is a path to wholeness. To unity. To becoming part of the All.

Cat Ferris
Jun 113 min read
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Not a Service, but a Ritual: The Ephemeral Art of Sacred Sensuality
I’ve come to see my sacred sensuality sessions as a kind of improvised art—one that exists only for a moment, but leaves a lasting imprint. This is a glimpse into the ritual, the rhythm, and the remembering.

Cat Ferris
Jun 112 min read
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Making Love to the Camera: How Erotic Play Helped Me Reclaim My Body
Photography Credit: JC Stark Photo So much of my work—and my personal mission—is rooted in body positivity. Every day, I’m in the...

Cat Ferris
May 113 min read
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The Cost of Being Looked At
A reflection on beauty, power, and the fear of fading Photographer: Rain Kessler Photography Beauty is a Currency—Whether We Want It to...

Cat Ferris
Apr 135 min read
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Finding My Rhythm: What Ecstatic Dance Taught Me About Freedom
For years, I’ve incorporated ecstatic dance into my sacred sexuality practice. Movement has always felt like a gateway to something...

Cat Ferris
Mar 253 min read
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Why Empathy Is Harder in Relationships (And How to Cultivate It Anyway)
Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...

Cat Ferris
Mar 24 min read
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What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...

Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
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Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...

Cat Ferris
Oct 30, 20242 min read
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The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...

Cat Ferris
Oct 13, 20243 min read
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The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...

Cat Ferris
Oct 1, 20244 min read
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Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...

Cat Ferris
Sep 6, 20244 min read
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The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...

Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
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The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...

Cat Ferris
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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