Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...
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Cat Ferris
Oct 133 min read
The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...
Cat Ferris
Oct 14 min read
The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...
Cat Ferris
Sep 64 min read
Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...
Cat Ferris
Jul 283 min read
The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
Cat Ferris
Jul 213 min read
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
Jun 302 min read
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 233 min read
The Power of Embodiment
In our fast-paced, hyper-connected world, it’s easy to lose touch with the connections that truly matter: the connections to ourselves,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 163 min read
The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...
Cat Ferris
Jun 41 min read
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
Cat Ferris
Jun 23 min read
Exploring Darker Desires
Content Warning: this essay mentions sensitive topics including incest, age play, and rape. "The erotic mind is not rational, nor is it...
Cat Ferris
Jan 42 min read
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
Cat Ferris
Dec 8, 20232 min read
The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
Cat Ferris
Dec 5, 20233 min read
Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
Cat Ferris
Nov 13, 20232 min read
The Art of Love: Embracing Presence Over Perfection
In a world that often prioritizes physical attributes and societal expectations, the essence of a great lover transcends the superficial....
Cat Ferris
Oct 10, 20232 min read
The Sublime Pleasures of Hot Wax
Festivals are incredible spaces where people from diverse backgrounds gather to celebrate their passions, hobbies, and interests....
Cat Ferris
Oct 9, 20231 min read
Melting
I ache to get lost inside of you With one touch of your hand against my skin my corporeal self dissolves My body melts away dripping like...
Cat Ferris
Oct 9, 20233 min read
The Secret Weapon for Sexy Vibes
In the world of music, there's a mesmerizing power that transcends time and space, weaving a spell of sensuality with every captivating...
Cat Ferris
Oct 6, 20232 min read
Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey with Sensate Focus
Intimacy, the very heartbeat of human connections, has a profound impact that reaches deep into our hearts and bodies. Yet, let's face...
Cat Ferris
Sep 18, 20232 min read
Prelude to a Kiss
As a curator of life's most intimate moments, I once had a collection of black and photographs of people kissing. In a world saturated...
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