The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
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Cat Ferris
- Jul 21
- 3 min
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
- Jul 6
- 2 min
Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 30
- 2 min
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 4
- 1 min
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
Cat Ferris
- May 26
- 3 min
Embracing the Evolution of Desire: A Personal Reflection on Casual Sex and Intimacy
In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...
Cat Ferris
- Jan 10
- 2 min
Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...
Cat Ferris
- Jan 4
- 2 min
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 26, 2023
- 1 min
Pure Bliss
My favorite part of our lovemaking is falling asleep with you our legs entwined my face nestled against your shoulder breathing your...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 8, 2023
- 2 min
The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 5, 2023
- 3 min
Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 4, 2023
- 2 min
Intimacy by Design: a Defense of Scheduled Sex
In the early stages of a relationship, it's not uncommon for passion and intimacy to feel spontaneous and effortless. However, as life...
Cat Ferris
- Nov 28, 2023
- 3 min
The Allure of "Daddy" Sex Appeal: Breaking Taboos and Exploring Desires
From my young adult years onwards, if you asked anyone who's known me, they'd likely spill the beans about my penchant for older men....
Cat Ferris
- Nov 13, 2023
- 2 min
The Art of Love: Embracing Presence Over Perfection
In a world that often prioritizes physical attributes and societal expectations, the essence of a great lover transcends the superficial....
Cat Ferris
- Nov 11, 2023
- 1 min
The Mage
Some women dream of Prince Charming coming to their rescue adorned in glistening armor Building them their very own castle encircling...
Cat Ferris
- Oct 9, 2023
- 3 min
The Secret Weapon for Sexy Vibes
In the world of music, there's a mesmerizing power that transcends time and space, weaving a spell of sensuality with every captivating...
Cat Ferris
- Oct 6, 2023
- 2 min
Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey with Sensate Focus
Intimacy, the very heartbeat of human connections, has a profound impact that reaches deep into our hearts and bodies. Yet, let's face...
Cat Ferris
- Sep 27, 2023
- 3 min
The Most Attractive Quality in a Man
In the realm of dating and relationships, there's an exceptional quality that sets men apart, making them highly appealing: their ability...
Cat Ferris
- Sep 21, 2023
- 3 min
The Soup of Thoughts: Understanding My Mind’s Complexity
For most of my life, I believed that internal monologues were a literary or cinematic device rather than an everyday facet of human...
Cat Ferris
- Sep 18, 2023
- 2 min
Prelude to a Kiss
As a curator of life's most intimate moments, I once had a collection of black and photographs of people kissing. In a world saturated...
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