The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 213 min read
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
Jul 62 min read
Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
Cat Ferris
Jun 302 min read
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 41 min read
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
Cat Ferris
May 263 min read
Embracing the Evolution of Desire: A Personal Reflection on Casual Sex and Intimacy
In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...
Cat Ferris
Jan 102 min read
Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...
Cat Ferris
Jan 42 min read
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
Cat Ferris
Dec 26, 20231 min read
Pure Bliss
My favorite part of our lovemaking is falling asleep with you our legs entwined my face nestled against your shoulder breathing your...
Cat Ferris
Dec 8, 20232 min read
The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
Cat Ferris
Dec 5, 20233 min read
Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
Cat Ferris
Dec 4, 20232 min read
Intimacy by Design: a Defense of Scheduled Sex
In the early stages of a relationship, it's not uncommon for passion and intimacy to feel spontaneous and effortless. However, as life...
Cat Ferris
Nov 28, 20233 min read
The Allure of "Daddy" Sex Appeal: Breaking Taboos and Exploring Desires
From my young adult years onwards, if you asked anyone who's known me, they'd likely spill the beans about my penchant for older men....
Cat Ferris
Nov 13, 20232 min read
The Art of Love: Embracing Presence Over Perfection
In a world that often prioritizes physical attributes and societal expectations, the essence of a great lover transcends the superficial....
Cat Ferris
Nov 11, 20231 min read
The Mage
Some women dream of Prince Charming coming to their rescue adorned in glistening armor Building them their very own castle encircling...
Cat Ferris
Oct 9, 20233 min read
The Secret Weapon for Sexy Vibes
In the world of music, there's a mesmerizing power that transcends time and space, weaving a spell of sensuality with every captivating...
Cat Ferris
Oct 6, 20232 min read
Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey with Sensate Focus
Intimacy, the very heartbeat of human connections, has a profound impact that reaches deep into our hearts and bodies. Yet, let's face...
Cat Ferris
Sep 27, 20233 min read
The Most Attractive Quality in a Man
In the realm of dating and relationships, there's an exceptional quality that sets men apart, making them highly appealing: their ability...
Cat Ferris
Sep 21, 20233 min read
The Soup of Thoughts: Understanding My Mind’s Complexity
For most of my life, I believed that internal monologues were a literary or cinematic device rather than an everyday facet of human...
Cat Ferris
Sep 18, 20232 min read
Prelude to a Kiss
As a curator of life's most intimate moments, I once had a collection of black and photographs of people kissing. In a world saturated...
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