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Cat Ferris
22 hours ago3 min read
Ask The Sex Coach: How to Handle Judgment for Being Polyamorous
(And Whether Coming Out is Right For You) This week’s question was submitted through Instagram: “How do you deal with the potential...
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Cat Ferris
Mar 134 min read
Ask the Sex Coach: How Can I Explore Kink with Responsive Desire and High Brakes?
I recently launched my "Ask the Sex Coach" Â series on Instagram, where I answer your real, unfiltered questions about intimacy,...
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Cat Ferris
Mar 24 min read
Why Empathy Is Harder in Relationships (And How to Cultivate It Anyway)
Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...
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Cat Ferris
Feb 163 min read
Beyond the Binary: My Polyamorous Dating Journey
Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 21, 20243 min read
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 6, 20242 min read
Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 30, 20242 min read
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 4, 20241 min read
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
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Cat Ferris
May 26, 20243 min read
Embracing the Evolution of Desire: A Personal Reflection on Casual Sex and Intimacy
In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...
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Cat Ferris
Jan 10, 20242 min read
Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...
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Cat Ferris
Jan 4, 20242 min read
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 26, 20231 min read
Pure Bliss
My favorite part of our lovemaking is falling asleep with you our legs entwined my face nestled against your shoulder breathing your...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 8, 20232 min read
The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 5, 20233 min read
Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 4, 20232 min read
Intimacy by Design: a Defense of Scheduled Sex
In the early stages of a relationship, it's not uncommon for passion and intimacy to feel spontaneous and effortless. However, as life...
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Cat Ferris
Nov 28, 20233 min read
The Allure of "Daddy" Sex Appeal: Breaking Taboos and Exploring Desires
From my young adult years onwards, if you asked anyone who's known me, they'd likely spill the beans about my penchant for older men....
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Cat Ferris
Nov 13, 20232 min read
The Art of Love: Embracing Presence Over Perfection
In a world that often prioritizes physical attributes and societal expectations, the essence of a great lover transcends the superficial....
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Cat Ferris
Nov 11, 20231 min read
The Mage
Some women dream of Prince Charming coming to their rescue adorned in glistening armor Building them their very own castle encircling...
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