A trauma-informed exploration of ego-dystonic desire, consent, and harm prevention—without excusing or minimizing harm to children.

What if group masturbation and cuckolding aren’t just about sex, but about men craving intimacy and connection with each other? A look at the deeper emotional undercurrents behind these misunderstood kinks.

At the Sex Down South conference, I experienced a modern reimagining of nyotaimori — the Japanese art of serving food from the human body. This reflection explores food play, embodiment, consent, and the transformation of pleasure into ritual. Discover how reverence and intention can turn sensuality into healing art.

In polyamory circles, there’s a term for a certain kind of connection that burns bright and beautiful without becoming part of everyday...

I make love like an octopus. (Emotionally, metaphorically… not literally. Probably.)

Food play, filth, and the fine art of sticky surrender.

How conflicting roles can block our erotic expression—and what to do about it I went to Club Kink Jacksonville this past weekend. I was...

Exploring the Core Desire of Dominance, Devotion, and Transgressive Trust Our erotic blueprints are as unique as fingerprints. Your Core...

Photography Credit: JC Stark Photo So much of my work—and my personal mission—is rooted in body positivity. Every day, I’m in the...

I recently launched my "Ask the Sex Coach"  series on Instagram, where I answer your real, unfiltered questions about intimacy,...

Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...

The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...

In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...

Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...

Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...

As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...

Content Warning: this essay mentions sensitive topics including incest, age play, and rape. "The erotic mind is not rational, nor is it...

From my young adult years onwards, if you asked anyone who's known me, they'd likely spill the beans about my penchant for older men....

Festivals are incredible spaces where people from diverse backgrounds gather to celebrate their passions, hobbies, and interests....

I ache to get lost inside of you With one touch of your hand against my skin my corporeal self dissolves My body melts away dripping like...