Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...
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Cat Ferris
- Jul 28
- 3 min
The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
Cat Ferris
- Jul 21
- 3 min
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
- Jul 6
- 2 min
Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 30
- 2 min
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 23
- 3 min
The Power of Embodiment
In our fast-paced, hyper-connected world, it’s easy to lose touch with the connections that truly matter: the connections to ourselves,...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 16
- 3 min
The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 9
- 3 min
Why We MUST Speak Up About Sex
As a coach, mother, lover, friend, and woman, I have seen the incredible impact of having open and honest discussions about sex. It's...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 4
- 1 min
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
Cat Ferris
- Jun 2
- 3 min
Exploring Darker Desires
Content Warning: this essay mentions sensitive topics including incest, age play, and rape. "The erotic mind is not rational, nor is it...
Cat Ferris
- May 26
- 3 min
Embracing the Evolution of Desire: A Personal Reflection on Casual Sex and Intimacy
In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...
Cat Ferris
- May 19
- 3 min
Savoring Pleasure: The Path to Loving Your Body
Think back to the most delicious thing you've eaten recently. For me, it was a slice of coconut key lime pie. As I lifted my fork, the...
Cat Ferris
- Jan 23
- 3 min
Grief and Desire
In the world of somatic therapy, we understand that emotions are not confined to the mind; they are physical, embodied experiences. The...
Cat Ferris
- Jan 10
- 2 min
Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...
Cat Ferris
- Jan 4
- 2 min
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 26, 2023
- 1 min
Pure Bliss
My favorite part of our lovemaking is falling asleep with you our legs entwined my face nestled against your shoulder breathing your...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 22, 2023
- 1 min
Unwrap the Gift of Connection
In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, I wanted to reach out and share something special that might make this time...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 8, 2023
- 2 min
The Art of Communicating Beyond Words
Do you ever struggle to find the right words? It's a common challenge we all face. Our language is a complex system, where a single word...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 5, 2023
- 3 min
Mastering Ejaculation: Five Techniques for Greater Control and Pleasure
Navigating sexual mastery is a common pursuit among my clients. The overarching objective for many (regardless of gender) is to increase...
Cat Ferris
- Dec 4, 2023
- 2 min
Intimacy by Design: a Defense of Scheduled Sex
In the early stages of a relationship, it's not uncommon for passion and intimacy to feel spontaneous and effortless. However, as life...
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