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The Test Was Wrong. The Shame Was Not
I wasn’t worried when I got my latest STI screening.
I hadn't had any new unprotected partners since my last test. I trusted my body, my practices, my relationship agreements. I trusted the systems I had carefully put in place to protect my health.

Cat Ferris
Jun 244 min read
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Fantasy, Interrupted
How conflicting roles can block our erotic expression—and what to do about it I went to Club Kink Jacksonville this past weekend. I was...

Cat Ferris
Jun 243 min read
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Making Love to the Camera: How Erotic Play Helped Me Reclaim My Body
Photography Credit: JC Stark Photo So much of my work—and my personal mission—is rooted in body positivity. Every day, I’m in the...

Cat Ferris
May 113 min read
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Ask The Sex Coach: How to Handle Judgment for Being Polyamorous
(And Whether Coming Out is Right For You) This week’s question was submitted through Instagram: “How do you deal with the potential...

Cat Ferris
Mar 203 min read
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Beyond the Binary: My Polyamorous Dating Journey
Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...

Cat Ferris
Feb 163 min read
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What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...

Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
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Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...

Cat Ferris
Jun 30, 20242 min read
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The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...

Cat Ferris
Jun 16, 20243 min read
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Why We MUST Speak Up About Sex
As a coach, mother, lover, friend, and woman, I have seen the incredible impact of having open and honest discussions about sex. It's...

Cat Ferris
Jun 9, 20243 min read
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Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...

Cat Ferris
Jan 10, 20242 min read
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Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...

Cat Ferris
Jan 4, 20242 min read
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The Allure of "Daddy" Sex Appeal: Breaking Taboos and Exploring Desires
From my young adult years onwards, if you asked anyone who's known me, they'd likely spill the beans about my penchant for older men....

Cat Ferris
Nov 28, 20233 min read
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The Most Attractive Quality in a Man
In the realm of dating and relationships, there's an exceptional quality that sets men apart, making them highly appealing: their ability...

Cat Ferris
Sep 27, 20233 min read
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Confessions of a Decaf Sex Worker
Every morning, my husband makes himself a cup of espresso. His ritual is meticulous: he fills the bottom chamber of the Moka pot to a...

Cat Ferris
Sep 2, 20232 min read
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Unlocking Passion and Connection: Embark on a Journey with a Sex Coach
People might seek the guidance of a sex coach for a variety of reasons, as sex coaching goes beyond just physical aspects and can...

Cat Ferris
Aug 29, 20232 min read
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In Defense of Thirst Traps
There is no shortage of sexy women on the internet; and I'm not just talking about the professional models or the aspiring social media...

Cat Ferris
Aug 8, 20232 min read
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Catching Fire
Have you ever found yourself hypnotized by a fire? How the crackling sounds echo in the stillness...the flickering of the flames drawing...

Cat Ferris
Jul 4, 20232 min read
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