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Spiritual & Energetic Eroticism: Sacred Union Through Breath, Body & Presence
You want to feel connected not only to your partner, but to something greater. Call it Source, the Divine, the Universe, Spirit, Love itself.
Eroticism, for you, is a path to wholeness. To unity. To becoming part of the All.

Cat Ferris
Jun 113 min read
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Not a Service, but a Ritual: The Ephemeral Art of Sacred Sensuality
I’ve come to see my sacred sensuality sessions as a kind of improvised art—one that exists only for a moment, but leaves a lasting imprint. This is a glimpse into the ritual, the rhythm, and the remembering.

Cat Ferris
Jun 112 min read
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Power & Kink Eroticism: The Thrill of Control, Surrender, and Sacred Risk
Exploring the Core Desire of Dominance, Devotion, and Transgressive Trust Our erotic blueprints are as unique as fingerprints. Your Core...

Cat Ferris
Jun 93 min read
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Passionate Eroticism: Wild Wanting & Fiery Play
Exploring the Core Desire of Bold Expression, Spontaneity, and Electric Connection Every erotic being is wired a little differently. Your...

Cat Ferris
Jun 83 min read
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Romantic Eroticism: The Tender Art of Being Cherished
Exploring the Core Desire of Love, Devotion, and Deep Emotional Intimacy Have you ever wondered why  certain moments turn you on more...

Cat Ferris
Jun 83 min read
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Making Love to the Camera: How Erotic Play Helped Me Reclaim My Body
Photography Credit: JC Stark Photo So much of my work—and my personal mission—is rooted in body positivity. Every day, I’m in the...

Cat Ferris
May 113 min read
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The Cost of Being Looked At
A reflection on beauty, power, and the fear of fading Photographer: Rain Kessler Photography Beauty is a Currency—Whether We Want It to...

Cat Ferris
Apr 135 min read
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Finding My Rhythm: What Ecstatic Dance Taught Me About Freedom
For years, I’ve incorporated ecstatic dance into my sacred sexuality practice. Movement has always felt like a gateway to something...

Cat Ferris
Mar 253 min read
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Ask The Sex Coach: How to Handle Judgment for Being Polyamorous
(And Whether Coming Out is Right For You) This week’s question was submitted through Instagram: “How do you deal with the potential...

Cat Ferris
Mar 203 min read
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Ask the Sex Coach: How Can I Explore Kink with Responsive Desire and High Brakes?
I recently launched my "Ask the Sex Coach" Â series on Instagram, where I answer your real, unfiltered questions about intimacy,...

Cat Ferris
Mar 134 min read
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Why Empathy Is Harder in Relationships (And How to Cultivate It Anyway)
Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...

Cat Ferris
Mar 24 min read
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Introducing the Igniting Intimacy Package: A New Way to Deepen Your Connection
One of the most common challenges I see in my work as an intimacy coach is couples struggling to bridge the gap between individual growth...

Cat Ferris
Feb 272 min read
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Beyond the Binary: My Polyamorous Dating Journey
Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...

Cat Ferris
Feb 163 min read
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What’s Your Sexual Archetype? Find Out Where You’d Sit in the Cafeteria
Ah, the high school cafeteria. A buzzing ecosystem where each table had its own vibe, rules, and energy . The jocks, the artists, the...

Cat Ferris
Jan 192 min read
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What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...

Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
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Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...

Cat Ferris
Oct 30, 20242 min read
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The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...

Cat Ferris
Oct 13, 20243 min read
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The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...

Cat Ferris
Oct 1, 20244 min read
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Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...

Cat Ferris
Sep 6, 20244 min read
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The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...

Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
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